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How to Write a Autobiography on Yourself

An autobiography is a complete chronicle of one’s life from beginning to end – or at least where that person is today. This means knowing how to write an autobiography on yourself requires you to tell your story. More than just a series of memoirs, the autobiography is about life itself and the thoughts, emotions, and actions taken each day.

An autobiography about you begins where every life story begins: childhood. Now maybe you don’t want to include details about your birth in graphic detail, but lessons learned from your childhood would be suitable. Who were your parents? What did they do for a living? What lessons, ethics, or spiritual truths did they instill into you?

Answer those questions and you’re already working toward telling the story of your life.

What Is the Overall Theme of Your Life?

An autobiography might be a lot of facts about you, but it has to be more than just a bunch of statistics. Your life tells a story. It’s woven into the fabric of our very planet. Take a step back, look at that story, and there’s a good chance you’ll see a theme to the decisions that you’ve made in your life.

Some people decide to give up easily because others have always given up on them. Some people are fighters because they’ve never had anything given to them. Some have come from wealthy families and expanded that wealth, but for societal gain instead of personal happiness.

There’s a reason why you are the person that you are. This is true for all of us. Find that reason and you’ll have the theme needed for your autobiography.

What Were the Pivotal Moments in Your Life?

People make decisions every day – up to 20,000 of them, in fact. Some decisions have more importance than others. Do you remember what you ate for breakfast 12 days ago? Sure – if you work at it, thinking back day after day in sequence. It’s difficult to recall.

But there are pivotal moments where we reached a crossroads in life where the decision we made can be instantly recalled. Life could go one way or the other depending on the decision made. These are the moments to write about in an autobiography. Discuss how you evaluated each possible option. What were the pros and cons of going one way or the other?

And then how did life turn out after you made that decision?

The reason why so many people are attracted to an autobiography is because they are stuck in these pivotal moments. They don’t know what decision to make, so they decide to not make a decision at all. By reading your story, readers get a sliver of mentoring from your experiences so that they can have more guidance in their own lives. In other words, you create teaching moments for others by offering your perspective on how to handle the moments when life reaches a crossroads.

What Keeps You Going Every Day?

If you’re writing an autobiography, then you’re not dead yet.

This is a simple truth, but one that is often overlooked. An autobiography needs to have an ending even though your life is still going on. To provide your story with an ending, you must look at what inspires you to keep going every day. When you wake up in the morning, what is it that you hope to accomplish during the day?

Do you want to improve the world? Are you working for a paycheck? Is there a promotion you’re trying to obtain and you can’t think of anything else?

Everything you’ve experienced has brought you to this point. The decisions you will make in the future are based on the lessons learned. What your parents have instilled into you has helped to motivate you – whether you agreed with those lessons or not.

People don’t have to be a positive influence in our lives for us to create positive outcomes from their interactions with us.

Life can be hard. There are many moments when life doesn’t seem like it is worth living. Yet as each moment passes and there is still breath in your chest, another step forward is taken. Discover from what you’ve already shared what keeps that forward momentum in place and you’ll have an ending to your story, but one that is to be continued.

Knowing how to write an autobiography on yourself seems hard, but it doesn’t have to be. It must simply be a chronicle of your life and the lessons you’ve learned from it. Your story has value. It deserves to be shared. The autobiography is the perfect medium to make that happen.

Melissa G Wilson

Melissa has been a leader in the book writing, publishing and marketing arena for the past two decades. To date, she has helped more than 100 thought leaders write, publish and market their books. Her clients include executives such as Dan Weinfurter a seven-time Inc 500 winner and Orlando Ashford, President of Holland Cruise Lines.

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