As an UBER GIVER you have been TAKING away from you and your family.
Instead, stay in the MIDDLE of THE EXCHANGE. Think of the OTHER PERSON or PEOPLE, BUT ALSO, think of YOU.
ASK, “What would an outside observer see would be a HEALTHY EXCHANGE where both parties benefit?
If the exchange is working then both parties involved benefit and the outcome produced will ripple out to others beyond the two parties.